In life, give and take has been extended to give, take and give! It is not important how big you are and how much you give but to feel good about yourself start giving even a little, it may be too much for the receiver. A drop of water is a flood for the ant! Give till it hurts a little. Not money only but time and advice of self-improvement and self motivation. In my own case when I was 45, my boss `insisted` that I apply for self-financing DDA flat. I did. Today at 72 it is worth Rs.45 lakhs. Is it not Balle Balle` Thank you boss.